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Vacation Time?  Why Family Travel With Your Special Needs     Child is More Important Than You Think

1/21/2015

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From a SpecialGlobe Family Member and Special Needs Sibling


When I was a kid, my parents took us to a large amusement park. Me, my brother, and my 
little sister, Amy who has a cognitive special need. We waited in line for hours to go on what was, at the time, 
the most popular theme park ride in  the country. As we approached the entry a teenager moved to block our way, chewing on his  lips as his eyes fixed on my younger sister. "I don't know if she'll be able to handle this," he said 
to my mom.


Amy has a rare condition called Chromosomal Displacement. On the surface it looks exactly like 
Downs Syndrome, but it has one very important difference; the condition is so rare that no one 
has ever been able to tell us what to expect. We'd grown up taking for granted the idea that 
every day for and with our sister was a precious gift, because nobody knew what the next day 
would bring. 

It was, we would find out as life went along, the same unspoken philosophy that Amy had. A 
severely limited rate of mental maturation had done nothing to similarly limit her sassiness or 
her genetically inherited lust for adrenaline. So when faced with a semi-authority figure
questioning our sister's ability to "handle" a simple ride, my brother and I just stood there 
gaping, uncomprehending.

"I think she'll be okay," my mom said. Amy adamantly agreed.

The teenager continued to waffle, until my mother pointed out loudly that my sister's handicap 
made her short for her age, and that even so she still met the height requirement and he had no 
right to keep her out. Behind us people in line started to chime in with early-nineties disapproval 
jargon.

"Dude, that's totally gnarly."

"NOT rad, dude, not rad."

The attendant turned beet red and reluctantly stepped aside. Amy gave him a hug as she 

passed, because that's what Amy does.
She dragged us onto the same roller coaster nine more times that day. 
For four of them, the same teenager let us in.

My original intention when I sat down was to write about why it's important that our kids with 
special challenges be given the opportunity to try new things. But my mind keeps going back to 
that poor confused park attendant, and I wonder if Amy helped to educate him a little bit that 
day. So I think this piece isn't so much about how our special needs kids need us. It's a rare 
piece about how much we need them.

Special Needs Travel, while sometimes admittedly challenging, can be one of the most 
amazingly beautiful things a person can ever experience. Our kids see everything around them, 
people included, from such a very different perspective than we do, that it's impossible to spend 
time with them without experiencing at least a small shift in the way we see things ourselves. 

We spend a lot of time bemoaning the fact that our special needs kids don't think like us. We 
never think about the fact that it might sometimes be a good thing. Overwhelmed? Not sure 
what to expect? This is where it becomes vital that we take advantage of the community of 
people who understand what we're going through. If you're feeling stuck, all you have to do is 
contact us and we'll help get you on your way.

We shouldn't have to teach our kids to hide who they are because we're afraid what other 
people might do or say. Quite the opposite. We owe it to the world to let them see the beauty 
our kids can bring them. The longer we keep them in the shadows, the longer both they and we 
as their caretakers will continue to struggle. And the longer we'll be educating teenagers at 
overpriced theme parks.
1 Comment
Am Pfadt
1/21/2015 10:02:31 am

Nice post. We often overlook the effects that inclusionary experiences have on others in the neurityoucal world.
Our folks broaden their horizons as much as the other way around.

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